I know what people are going to say ‘You’re fifteen, you’re a whore, you’re a skank, pole dancers are sluts’ but that’s all wrong. First of all, I want to pole dance because I see it as a great exersize that I’d actually enjoy, as I have no sport of my own. People think that it’s all sex and stripping, but if you’ve seen any footage of Tara Karina or KT Coates, who are amazing pole dancers and are so athletic! I also have no ambition to be a pole dancer in a club or bar, that’s not me at all. I’ve saved enough more for a pole, and I have my eyes set on a removable ‘My Sexy Little Pole’ which I’d be able to put up in my room. My parents would probably disagree as we are devout catholics (HA!) but if it was removable I’d be able to put it up in minutes and away in a couple of seconds. I can only purchase one either with a credit card (which I dont have) or going into Ann Summers or something, which I’m not keen on doing. Help?

On a serious note you have to be careful about mail order poles. I have a friend in the burlesque community who got one – damn thing was NOT sound and she nearly broke her neck.

What I would say is skip the pole and get acrobatics or circus training instead. If you go this route you will have an edge on others in the profession.

Trust me, the best pole dancers I’ve know usually did acro or somesuch when they were younger. And to be honest, I have seen better athleticism from pole dancers in the sex entertainment industry than the two performers you cite (I’m a member of the Toronto Burlesque Vaudeville Alliance so trust me I’ve seen it all).

The other thing to consider is to get dance training in west coast swing or salsa. Another friend of mine – a west coast swing instructor – entered a pole dance contest on a lark and won easily.

Frankly, pole dancing is still considered to be in the domain of sex entertainment you are going to have hard time convincing people otherwise.

But I am all for you considering circus training (for pole, rings, etc.) – you are at the right age for it. See below: