I don’t want this effect to look cheesy at all. Exploring the physical effect that the passion of dance can have on a person’s body that all that they touch or come into contact with becomes part of that reality that they are experiencing at that moment.
The look of the effect should give the feeling of the dancer trying to fight the merge of the inanimate object.

You could do it like a stripper swinging around a pole and blending in as she spins.